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I'm a maybe(?) poly BBW nerd. South Park, Star Wars/Trek, Rick and Morty, Firefly, MCU, etc. Still waiting to start my 1st RPG Campaign, dammit. I am newly single from my first poly relationship; it's not for the faint of heart and takes a certain maturity to make it work. I'm a switch, leaning on the sub side. I like a vocal man who practices aftercare, and I enjoy praise, even though I'll probably blush or make a lame joke. I'm looking for another poly relationship where I'm the primary or a monogamous one, but it depends upon the human(s). Possibly a DaddyDom. I'm not looking for a fwb thing, I've got that covered. I'm demisexual so I have to have an emotional connection to be physical with people and for me to get off. Cards on the table, if you don't have the emotional maturity of your age number or good communication skills, then I'm not the droid you're looking for. I'm looking for friendship, fucking, and possibly love.
Female (41) Tulsa, Oklahoma
So in short what I am looking for is a man I can have an intelligent conversation with, who can take complete control of me, or give me COMPLETE controland bring back some of the fondest memories I have to call upon,if am lucky enough to find someone that can play that part in my life.I consider safe words a thing to be used when scening or pering a demonstration, I am looking for someone that can read my reactions and I can be secure enough to not need a safe word. Im looking for a full time relationship at this time in my life, but would like to meet someone I can be friends with and possibly have a healthy ongoing physical relationship(not necessarily sex) as well without any games or the other bullshit some people find necessary to deal with in a steady relationship Ill stroke anything but your ego.
Female (53) Tulsa, Oklahoma
snap: elizabeta*** couples: I will not be your sub as I am dominant leaning towards most femme presenting persons. 6'0 tall switch that fluctuates between mommy domme and brat. Pansexual and Demiromantic. I'm into video games, cars, the gym, and tattoos/piercings.
Female (25) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Pamela, Mistress Pamela.. Thorniapoetess: FET GoddessThornia: X I am a little over 5 feet tall with shoulder length wavy brownish red hair and gray eyes. Chubby/bbw and fairly smart. I have 12 tattoos and 6 piercings. Single mom...mostly introverted. A Kinky Kelly through and through. I am looking for friends/connection..people to explore with.. and to just see what I can see..in an organic type of way. Woman! But also bigender/nonbinary. Born with a vulva/vag, regardless. Demisexual..possibly panromantic/pansexual. I am into bi guys, Findom and big D (not required). I would love to find MY PEOPLE. A life partner, several life partners, a bestie, people to test limits and explore safely with...companions and trusted confidantes. Whatever happens happens! Tulsa rep! Good dental hygiene (healthy teeth and gums, and good breath) and overall hygiene are MUSTS. I have to get to know you if you ever want to meet up. No way around that. Not here for sexting. APPROACH/TRIBUTE FOR FIN: $25 $pammej85
Female (39) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Taken, NOT LOOKING FOR MEN, HOOKUPS or SWITCHES Couple Profile: MstrLPndpiggysvn Looking for the following: female: 18-40ish, Will start online with the eventual goal of you relocating to Oklahoma as a live in. Requirements: Age: 18+ and demonstrate a level of understanding about the Lifestyle Gender: I am open to whatever is between your legs: I prefer the female energy. Body: Open - I prefer chubby/BBW. We are both big here. Will either be or learn to be comfortable with your body. Must want a 24/7 live in slave position (other kinks such a DDLG or Pet Play are fine but must have a slave desire foremost.) Able to relocate to Oklahoma Driving is a + Homebodies preferred as Wwe aren't the party/bar type. Able to work at least part time to contribute to the House. Dum enough to obey and smart enough to learn. Strong interest in serving first Not interested in Brats or Princess types (unless you plan to be broken of that willingly) * I don't mind playful* Written by MstrLP
Female (30) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I'm a Beautiful exciting young woman that enjoys the company of a strong but submissive man. The satisfaction I get from making someone listen on command with complete submission, with the understanding of roles and wants is what i'm seeking. A man that is strong enough and financially stable to explore the beautiful mind of a woman in complete control of your wild side. The missions, demands and commands are beyond pleasing!
Female (28) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I'm a complicated Lady who knows what she wants and knows what she doesn't. I'm bright and very dorky but sexy and unique. I have been dominant and submissive with men and women. I perfer to submit tho I do not mind to dominate if that's the dynamic we have decided apon. I was with a female pleasure dom for many years and have 9 years of very complex and specific kink experience. however I have a limited experience in other more standard areas. I'm a Passenger princess, highly submissive, Lady who's a bit of a Brat looking for good, kind and clean men to teach me, guide me, spoil me and play with me, ect.. I am incredibly kind and open hearted but do not think me naive. I am interested in long-term dynamics and connections even complex friendships and networking. not interested in one night stands. additional details: I don't use snap. call me old fashioned but I like to write and talk to eachother. 420 friendly I am an intersex female (ask if don't know what that means) measurements 32 25 34 cup size fluctuating between 32B and 32D usually 32C clothing size XS shoe size 6 I'm only interested if you fit ALL the following criteria. in no particular order: ♡ Male or assigned male at birth ♡ *Age* 27-45 ♡ *Height* 5'10 and up ♡ *Weight* 150-250 (if taller than average weight isn't a deal breaker) ♡ *Size* 0.6"L , 0.2"W and up bigger is better ♡ experienced with high stamina and good aftercare. ♡ you are comfortable hosting (I will not EVER host) ♡ you are comfortable driving and picking me up (I won't be coming to you) ♡ you understand a true kink dynamic and complex consent dynamics. ♡ must be clean and tested regularly ( I am ) ♡ you understand its my body my choice but its our responsibility. ☆bonus points for a vasectomy, muscular body, tattoos, piercings, long or well maintained hair/shave☆
Female (27) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I’m a 24 year old who likes to be controlled and likes to be a little and have rules and expectations that I must follow. my little age is 0-3 I am submissive
Female (24) Tulsa, Oklahoma
looking for someone older and experienced as i'm kind of shy. looking for someone straightforward and upfront about what they want. and most importantly i'm looking for fun
Female (24) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Amateur Sub. Partnered. Very Busy. Routine is essential. Health is Abundance. Very picky. Demisexual. Connection is important. I won’t even bother meeting you if I don’t feel a connection. Must respect boundaries. Must be willing to discuss a contract for D/S dynamic. You must host as my space is limited.
Female (34) Tulsa, Oklahoma
5"5, brown eyes and thick thighs. I love being submissive to the right one, and I'm on a journey of self discovery
Female (40) Tulsa, Oklahoma
MiLea here. Get your girl next door fix with this hot and single MILF 😏🤩🥵💦🥰💕😘💛 I like being ***d, spanked, hair pulled, called your babygirl, a good girl, a naughty slut, I like my ass played with, sometimes anal, and I like my nipples pinched, pulled, and licked. I love being fingered until I squirt. I like being face *'d, more so if you're touching me at the same time. I have toys I use if the other person isn't bothered by them. Doggy is my favorite because it's the most accessible for the toys for both you and I, all while you can get deep. I DONT HAVE SC, I GOT BANNED, ASK FOR TELEGRAM OR WHATSAPP PLEASE
Female (30) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Switch but very much prefer to be submissive. I need to be able to find your mind attractive as much as the physical aspect, so talking and building a connection is a must! Wouldn't mind couples but what I am really looking for is a girlfriend. Outside of the lifestyle, music is everything. It speaks to my soul as nothing else can. I love being in nature. I love ***s. I am very spiritual. I love my rocks and crystals. Current obsession: Sleep Token 💜 == Results from bdsmtest.org:= 100% Brat 94% Voyeur 94% Submissive 90% Experimentalist 89% Exhibitionist 89% Masochist 84% Rope bunny 84% Non-monogamist 78% Switch 68% Rigger 68% Primal (Prey) 66% Degradee 59% Sadist 57% Dominant 53% Slave 42% Brat tamer 39% Vanilla 32% Degrader 32% Pet 31% Primal (Hunter) 27% Master/Mistress 21% Owner 3% Daddy/Mommy 0% Ageplayer 0% Boy/Girl
Female (32) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I am new to actively looking for someone within the DD/LG BDSM community. Looking for a DD/Dom that is wanting a long term relationship (hoping this isn’t too much to ask for) that is patient and willing to teach and help me explore & experiences different things to find my liked and dislikes. I have some minimal experience as a Sub but just started the with the DD/LG aspect but I am very excited
Female (42) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I’m a 24 year old who loves to play games with my family. I work as a Certified Nursing Assistant /Certified Medication Aide at a long term nursing care facility
Female (24) Tulsa, Oklahoma
DDLG/SWITCH im either a sadistic pleasure dom or a little. im into age play, Being ***d into regression is one of my biggest fantasies Looking for DD/caregiver or P@yp!g/slave/ masochist Short and stout, abit of a belly, a fat fat ass and thighs. I work alot but i want to be able to play and let loose Im a strong woman, with a big girl big *** job, with a strong will and i take no shit. But i am also baby :)
Female (29) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I’m a fairly open minded person who thrives on information and communication. I’ll try anything twice, with the right information. I would enjoy a partner who put emphasis on foreplay.
Female (39) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I'm 100% switch. I currently am only seeking subs. I do not have a daddy, and if that is the role you wish to take with me. be prepared to tame one of the biggest brats in the world. I don't like small talk. Please don't come in my inbox with hi, how are you? Telling me I'm pretty is not an original compliment. Give me a good pick up line. Tell me what you found most interesting on my profile. Intelligence and power turn me on way more than any cock, no matter the size. Bonus if you have a non-american accent.
Female (38) Tulsa, Oklahoma
POLY/PAN lol I'm a little looking for a caregiver, im looking for an actual relationship not one just based on sex, I play some video games, I'm also a brat. also not like I have to say but I have some mental health issues lol I'm just sad but it makes me funny
Female (19) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Fun loving wild and crazzzy Gemini here!! also, been an exhibitionist since the day I came into this world. I love hug! xoxoxxx
Female (40) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I am looking for a Daddy Dom who knows how to handle a brat.... smartassery is my favorite language
Female (43) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Wanting to explore new kinks, including possibly temperature play and MAYBE electrical play. Not a lot of electrical stuff like taser level, but something a little more tame since newby here. I love to be dominated and tied up, so if you think you can help me feel submissive and happy at the same time, feel free to text. I am a little (sfw), so do with that what you will.
Female (20) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Hello I'm 26, mixed and I have found my forever daddy and I'm very happy, however were looking for playmates that could possibly lead to more. Im a baby girl submissive and like most things and have alot i want to try. My daddy is a pleasure dom who specializes in making sure that his playmates are having fun safely and wants to help me learn and embrace kink. Were interested in couples single women and possibly a submissive man or dom in training, straight preferred. Please keep in mind I'm owned and only interested in people who hes has talked to and approved. My Limits: *** *** or too much *** My Daddy's Limits: he's straight Let's all have fun, please reach out to my daddy if you want to play. Thank you 😊
Female (26) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I've been married or in a relationship pretty much my whole Adult life I just? Really wanna be with 2? Guys. At the same time I want To be DPI want all the attention to me.
Female (40) Tulsa, Oklahoma

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So in short what I am looking for is a man I can have an intelligent conversation with, who can take complete control of me, or give me COMPLETE controland bring back some of the fondest memories I have to call upon,if am lucky enough to find someone that can play that part in my life.I consider safe words a thing to be used when scening or pering a demonstration, I am looking for someone that can read my reactions and I can be secure enough to not need a safe word. Im looking for a full time relationship at this time in my life, but would like to meet someone I can be friends with and possibly have a healthy ongoing physical relationship(not necessarily sex) as well without any games or the other bullshit some people find necessary to deal with in a steady relationship Ill stroke anything but your ego.
Female (53) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I'm a Beautiful exciting young woman that enjoys the company of a strong but submissive man. The satisfaction I get from making someone listen on command with complete submission, with the understanding of roles and wants is what i'm seeking. A man that is strong enough and financially stable to explore the beautiful mind of a woman in complete control of your wild side. The missions, demands and commands are beyond pleasing!
Female (28) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I'm a maybe(?) poly BBW nerd. South Park, Star Wars/Trek, Rick and Morty, Firefly, MCU, etc. Still waiting to start my 1st RPG Campaign, dammit. I am newly single from my first poly relationship; it's not for the faint of heart and takes a certain maturity to make it work. I'm a switch, leaning on the sub side. I like a vocal man who practices aftercare, and I enjoy praise, even though I'll probably blush or make a lame joke. I'm looking for another poly relationship where I'm the primary or a monogamous one, but it depends upon the human(s). Possibly a DaddyDom. I'm not looking for a fwb thing, I've got that covered. I'm demisexual so I have to have an emotional connection to be physical with people and for me to get off. Cards on the table, if you don't have the emotional maturity of your age number or good communication skills, then I'm not the droid you're looking for. I'm looking for friendship, fucking, and possibly love.
Female (41) Tulsa, Oklahoma
snap: elizabeta*** couples: I will not be your sub as I am dominant leaning towards most femme presenting persons. 6'0 tall switch that fluctuates between mommy domme and brat. Pansexual and Demiromantic. I'm into video games, cars, the gym, and tattoos/piercings.
Female (25) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Taken, NOT LOOKING FOR MEN, HOOKUPS or SWITCHES Couple Profile: MstrLPndpiggysvn Looking for the following: female: 18-40ish, Will start online with the eventual goal of you relocating to Oklahoma as a live in. Requirements: Age: 18+ and demonstrate a level of understanding about the Lifestyle Gender: I am open to whatever is between your legs: I prefer the female energy. Body: Open - I prefer chubby/BBW. We are both big here. Will either be or learn to be comfortable with your body. Must want a 24/7 live in slave position (other kinks such a DDLG or Pet Play are fine but must have a slave desire foremost.) Able to relocate to Oklahoma Driving is a + Homebodies preferred as Wwe aren't the party/bar type. Able to work at least part time to contribute to the House. Dum enough to obey and smart enough to learn. Strong interest in serving first Not interested in Brats or Princess types (unless you plan to be broken of that willingly) * I don't mind playful* Written by MstrLP
Female (30) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Pamela, Mistress Pamela.. Thorniapoetess: FET GoddessThornia: X I am a little over 5 feet tall with shoulder length wavy brownish red hair and gray eyes. Chubby/bbw and fairly smart. I have 12 tattoos and 6 piercings. Single mom...mostly introverted. A Kinky Kelly through and through. I am looking for friends/connection..people to explore with.. and to just see what I can see..in an organic type of way. Woman! But also bigender/nonbinary. Born with a vulva/vag, regardless. Demisexual..possibly panromantic/pansexual. I am into bi guys, Findom and big D (not required). I would love to find MY PEOPLE. A life partner, several life partners, a bestie, people to test limits and explore safely with...companions and trusted confidantes. Whatever happens happens! Tulsa rep! Good dental hygiene (healthy teeth and gums, and good breath) and overall hygiene are MUSTS. I have to get to know you if you ever want to meet up. No way around that. Not here for sexting. APPROACH/TRIBUTE FOR FIN: $25 $pammej85
Female (39) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Switch but very much prefer to be submissive. I need to be able to find your mind attractive as much as the physical aspect, so talking and building a connection is a must! Wouldn't mind couples but what I am really looking for is a girlfriend. Outside of the lifestyle, music is everything. It speaks to my soul as nothing else can. I love being in nature. I love ***s. I am very spiritual. I love my rocks and crystals. Current obsession: Sleep Token 💜 == Results from bdsmtest.org:= 100% Brat 94% Voyeur 94% Submissive 90% Experimentalist 89% Exhibitionist 89% Masochist 84% Rope bunny 84% Non-monogamist 78% Switch 68% Rigger 68% Primal (Prey) 66% Degradee 59% Sadist 57% Dominant 53% Slave 42% Brat tamer 39% Vanilla 32% Degrader 32% Pet 31% Primal (Hunter) 27% Master/Mistress 21% Owner 3% Daddy/Mommy 0% Ageplayer 0% Boy/Girl
Female (32) Tulsa, Oklahoma
5"5, brown eyes and thick thighs. I love being submissive to the right one, and I'm on a journey of self discovery
Female (40) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I’m a 24 year old who loves to play games with my family. I work as a Certified Nursing Assistant /Certified Medication Aide at a long term nursing care facility
Female (24) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Looking for friends, a lifestyle mentor, and possibly a Dom if I can find the right person! I'm a sub, little, brat, slave, and kitten. It's been over a year since my last serious dynamic ended, and I'm finally ready to enter a new one if I can find the right person. I've been in the lifestyle for about 4 years now and am always looking to learn more. I love books, writing poetry, baking yummy food, drawing, telling bad jokes, and cuddling. I can be very shy at first but will open up more as we get to know each other. I am 420 friendly. Open to casual dates but looking for a serious relationship/dynamic down the line.
Female (24) Tulsa, Oklahoma
looking for a everyday-ish friend where we can talk about mutual interest but also have fun. STRICTLY ONLINE. on the thicker side
Female (24) Tulsa, Oklahoma
This is all new experience for me, I have never even had bsdm or kink sex before. I really would love to learn alot about my kink side that's in me...
Female (31) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I'm poly and demi(which makes poly hard) hard to get to know if u stick around I'm a fun out going person Looking to meet friends in the same lifestyle as me. see where things go from there if u ask what I'm looking for I will delete u from my inbox.
Female (27) Tulsa, Oklahoma
On the thicker side. I love to read, and watch my shows. New to this, can be a bit of a brat sometimes.
Female (24) Tulsa, Oklahoma
MiLea here. Get your girl next door fix with this hot and single MILF 😏🤩🥵💦🥰💕😘💛 I like being ***d, spanked, hair pulled, called your babygirl, a good girl, a naughty slut, I like my ass played with, sometimes anal, and I like my nipples pinched, pulled, and licked. I love being fingered until I squirt. I like being face *'d, more so if you're touching me at the same time. I have toys I use if the other person isn't bothered by them. Doggy is my favorite because it's the most accessible for the toys for both you and I, all while you can get deep. I DONT HAVE SC, I GOT BANNED, ASK FOR TELEGRAM OR WHATSAPP PLEASE
Female (30) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Just a needy, clingy, adorable, playful Little Princess looking for A Daddy/Pleasure Dom .
Female (41) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I'm a complicated Lady who knows what she wants and knows what she doesn't. I'm bright and very dorky but sexy and unique. I have been dominant and submissive with men and women. I perfer to submit tho I do not mind to dominate if that's the dynamic we have decided apon. I was with a female pleasure dom for many years and have 9 years of very complex and specific kink experience. however I have a limited experience in other more standard areas. I'm a Passenger princess, highly submissive, Lady who's a bit of a Brat looking for good, kind and clean men to teach me, guide me, spoil me and play with me, ect.. I am incredibly kind and open hearted but do not think me naive. I am interested in long-term dynamics and connections even complex friendships and networking. not interested in one night stands. additional details: I don't use snap. call me old fashioned but I like to write and talk to eachother. 420 friendly I am an intersex female (ask if don't know what that means) measurements 32 25 34 cup size fluctuating between 32B and 32D usually 32C clothing size XS shoe size 6 I'm only interested if you fit ALL the following criteria. in no particular order: ♡ Male or assigned male at birth ♡ *Age* 27-45 ♡ *Height* 5'10 and up ♡ *Weight* 150-250 (if taller than average weight isn't a deal breaker) ♡ *Size* 0.6"L , 0.2"W and up bigger is better ♡ experienced with high stamina and good aftercare. ♡ you are comfortable hosting (I will not EVER host) ♡ you are comfortable driving and picking me up (I won't be coming to you) ♡ you understand a true kink dynamic and complex consent dynamics. ♡ must be clean and tested regularly ( I am ) ♡ you understand its my body my choice but its our responsibility. ☆bonus points for a vasectomy, muscular body, tattoos, piercings, long or well maintained hair/shave☆
Female (27) Tulsa, Oklahoma
Looking for text only conversation at first, I have horrific trust issues, (Not jealousy issues) takes me a bit to warm up to phone calls and meeting. Patience is a huge deal breaker. Chunky but beautiful, well beautiful to the right guy. Independent but submissive, bratty tendencies. D.I.D. littles. Once I fall, Im loyal to a fault. I will worship you. Im extremely transparent. Ask me anything.
Female (43) Tulsa, Oklahoma
since my last profile description was entirely too specific.. I'm not quite sure what to say hard pass on ***. I'm going to extremely laid back person naturally dominant.. I've been out of I guess what you would call the scene from over a decade. used to play for fun and was a career girl. now just looking to feel normal again and idip my toe back in the water.. see if I still like the chill.
Female (45) Tulsa, Oklahoma
husband and wife wonts to have sex with couple husband is bored Randy my husband 58 bored.with us am 53 and am satisfied with us but if u can't bet them join them
Female (52) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I have a bf, he's my Daddy, but he is in prison. looking for someone to fill his shoes in his absence. NSA Trying to mentally manifest and draw in Big Dick Energy. I'm accustomed to a certain size bracket. Anything above average to the top of the list. I'm wanting more than the standard white boy issue..
Female (36) Tulsa, Oklahoma
i am very naturally submissive but ive never had that sort of relationship before i am very nerdy! i enjoy sci-fi and fantasy, history, music, crafts, arts, and my dog, Gimli (420 friendly!) my idea person is a kind leader that can help me grow and that i can be a good support to i don’t think im into the non monogamous thing
Female (26) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I am 100% submissive. wanting some online fun. looking to sext and tease. very into DDLG, ropes and restraints and wanting to explore more. need someone who likes to try new things
Female (26) Tulsa, Oklahoma
I'm not really into talking. Scenes aren't my thing, and I am just on here for hookups.
Female (24) Tulsa, Oklahoma

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